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| Country | USA |
| Age | 72 |
| Location | Massachusetts |
| City | Boston |
| Preferred Age | From 50 To 82 |
| Height | 5ft11-6ft (180-183cm) |
| Body Hair | Smooth |
| Facial Hair | None |
| Build | Stocky |
| Smoker | Non Smoker |
| Role | Active |
| Ethnic Origin | Other |
| Last Logged On | This week |
| I consider myself | Dominant |
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Am an academic (Medieval Studies) and an artist. Live between the south of Spain (Torremolinos and Cordoba) and New England (Boston). Hold all the expected degrees, speak various languages, well-travelled, masculine, and easy on the eye.
Like men over 50 who are intelligent; know the world either through travel or at least curiosity; are not pretentious; are financially independent,. Gravitate toward masculine men.
Have a tendency to be romantic (probably part of the Latin gene pool), and at the same time dominant in nature (both in and out of bed, so to speak, and maybe part of that same genotype). A former “Master” of the leather type, I realized that identity was overly limiting ((obligatory leather paraphernalia, administering severe discipline, and humiliation, etc.). Felt like a prop in someone else´s script. After a meaningful relationship with someone 30 years older than me (who passed away), I was mostly pursued by significantly younger men who saw me as a “Daddy.” That was ok (and even flattering), but I realized I had been turned into the one who always had to give (and not necessarily financially speaking—although there was certainly a lot of that). At this point, I don´t know what category I would fit into (if that were information required on a passport application)..
I am not a neophyte archaeologist (who finds only what he is looking for and misses out on all the other treasures he could have found) and at my age find it best to just wait for what the Universe brings (and then deciding if it is desired). I don´t want to have to agree with Proust in that” all true paradises are the lost ones,” or take on a life controlled by Portuguese “saudade” (look it up if you don´t know it; you will understand mature life better), but like all in a liminal space, I wait with cautious anticipation of a possible "what´s next."
Happy to add anything of interest. Am “out” in my professional and personal lives—although extremely conservative in appearance and public demeanor. Having grown up a victim of the “Velvet Rage” described by Alan Downs (highly suggested reading for most gay men of my generation), I have learned the beauty of not standing out nor having to overcome insecurities through public display.
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Like men over 50 who are intelligent; know the world either through travel or at least curiosity; are not pretentious; are financially independent,. Gravitate toward masculine men.
Have a tendency to be romantic (probably part of the Latin gene pool), and at the same time dominant in nature (both in and out of bed, so to speak, and maybe part of that same genotype). A former “Master” of the leather type, I realized that identity was overly limiting ((obligatory leather paraphernalia, administering severe discipline, and humiliation, etc.). Felt like a prop in someone else´s script. After a meaningful relationship with someone 30 years older than me (who passed away), I was mostly pursued by significantly younger men who saw me as a “Daddy.” That was ok (and even flattering), but I realized I had been turned into the one who always had to give (and not necessarily financially speaking—although there was certainly a lot of that). At this point, I don´t know what category I would fit into (if that were information required on a passport application)..
I am not a neophyte archaeologist (who finds only what he is looking for and misses out on all the other treasures he could have found) and at my age find it best to just wait for what the Universe brings (and then deciding if it is desired). I don´t want to have to agree with Proust in that” all true paradises are the lost ones,” or take on a life controlled by Portuguese “saudade” (look it up if you don´t know it; you will understand mature life better), but like all in a liminal space, I wait with cautious anticipation of a possible "what´s next."
Happy to add anything of interest. Am “out” in my professional and personal lives—although extremely conservative in appearance and public demeanor. Having grown up a victim of the “Velvet Rage” described by Alan Downs (highly suggested reading for most gay men of my generation), I have learned the beauty of not standing out nor having to overcome insecurities through public display.
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