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Country UK
Age 67
Location West Yorkshire
City Bradford
Preferred Age From  60  To  80
Height 5ft-5ft2 (152-158cm)
Body Hair Smooth
Facial Hair Mustache and Beard
Build Regular
Smoker Non Smoker
Role Versatile
Ethnic Origin Rather Not Say
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I’m 66, semi-retired after a long career in the media, now a musician, artist, writer, and therapist with plenty of free time and the freedom to use it well. I’m a quietly spiritual man who believes that sensuality, humour, and emotional depth don’t fade with age; they deepen. I like to laugh, tease, and keep things easy.

I’ve been in a long-term gay relationship for decades. My partner, twenty years my senior, is a good friend and companion. Over time our bond has become largely non-sexual — no bitterness, just reality. He turns a blind eye to my other interests, and we prefer to keep it that way.

I’m not looking to replace that relationship, but to add a discreet, genuine, ongoing connection with a man who understands the need for both physical and emotional intimacy, and who’s free of guilt or inhibition about it. Probably someone in a similar situation — gay, bi, or straight — with time and desire for regular meetings and relaxed affection.

I’m sexually versatile, experienced, passionate, tactile, and open-minded. After years on the gay scene I’m practically unshockable. I respect trans and cross-dressing men completely, though it’s not a turn-on for me. I’m not jaded — if anything, my sex drive is as high as ever. I’m simply tired of encounters that start and end without meaning. I’d prefer an erotic friendship that blends ease, affection, adventure, and depth.

Cleanliness and grooming matter, but I like a man to look, taste, smell, and act like a man — comfortable in himself, not trying too hard. Ideally you’ll be 60+, warm, grounded, tactile, and relaxed about all aspects of gay sex but still willing to explore. Well-read and curious would be a bonus: someone who enjoys ideas, music, film, or art, and sees life with humour and perspective.

I’m realistic, grounded, sane, and sorted. I live in Keighley, West Yorkshire, and can accommodate discreetly in a clean, comfortable home, or travel within reason. I try to keep fit — though I’m no gym bunny — and I’m in good health.

I don’t intend to spend the later part of my life in a sexual wilderness. I’d like these years to be rich, alive, and shared with someone who feels the same. No strings, no pressure — just an honest invitation to meet for coffee or a chat sometime and see if there’s a spark.

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