At Caffmos, we believe it’s never too late for a new beginning. Since 1998, we’ve helped thousands of mature gay men, silver daddies, and admirers move beyond the screen and into real-life friendships, partnerships, and civil unions.

Have you found your match on Caffmos? Share your story with us and inspire others in our community.

Here are a few who have emailed us recently!

Our Civil Partnership in April – Brian & Partner

Dear John, Through the good offices of Caffmos I have found my perfect Partner, and we are going to have 'The Civil Partnership' ceremony in April.It has been a pleasure over the last few months chatting and meeting so many nice chaps. I wish you well in the future, and hope that others will be as fortunate. Kindest regards, Brian

From Texas to Florida – Davro & Bill

Dear Caffmos. Just a quick word to thank you for making it possible for me to find a terrific friend and now partner through your organisation. Though he lived in Florida and I in Texas we have overcome the barriers of distance and are now living as a partnership in Venice, FL. Hugz Davro & Bill

Moving to Florida – David

Hi John. Thanks to Caffmos I met a lot of lovely people at the gatherings, then Howard (eyefun) and myself(bill579) met 2 years ago and have been together ever since in a loving caring relationship. As Howard lived in Florida, naturaly I moved there as the weather is slightly better than the UK. Again thanks for making life so much better. David

: A Travel Companion Found - Les

John, am I your first?
I want to thank you for creating the "Travel Partners section", as through an advert seeking a Travel Companion I have the most wonderful man and dear friend. We hit it off straight away and from now on will be travelling together, and doing a lot more than just travelling too. You site is wonderful, keep up the good work. Les

Great Friends - Peter and Bert

Just a big thank you to you both (John & Freddy) for the time, effort and wonderful work you do for us. I just wanted to send you both a positive message of congratulations. I have met some wonderful people through Caffmos, some are now close friends Peter and Bert (New York)

Meeting a Partner - Bert

Caffmos. I am writing to thank you for such a wonderful service. I had been a member, first of your Postal Membership and then moving on to the internet for a number of years. You have been most supportive and helpful over this period of time.
Last May, through your site I met a wonderful man and am now (god willing) taking the next step of moving closer together. So it with great appreciation I say a big thank you to you (John) and your team. Bert

Never Too Old ! - Bob

John, at 76years of age I thought I was ready for the scrap heap. But through many an hour spent in the Caffmos Lounge, sipping apperativs with Malky and the gang on a Sunday evening - I met Peter. Peter a mere youngster at 66years of age, was recently widowed and was finding life a little difficult. Our friendship grew and we shared a couple of holidays together in Spain. We have now bought a flat together and I have been made a part of his family. Happiness is a wonderfull, so is Caffmos. Thanks. Bob

meeting friends on the other side of the pond - Jack

John,
I just wanted to thank you for making a huge contribution to my life with Caffmos. I have met many new friends, and although I'm on the other side of the Atlantic, I have formed what I hope is at least one lasting friendship in the UK. Although I may never get to visit, my dream is to attend one of your annual meetings someday, and meet in person some of the friends I have made. Again, thank you very much for Caffmos.
Best regards, Jack Smith. West Virginia - USA

Great Site for older gay guys - Peter

Dear John. I have now renewed my membership for another year to give you support for the site. I had no idea that the response for the older guy was so appealing. I have to say I have been bowled over by the amount of warmth and friendship of the genuine guys that have contacted me through Caffmos. I have been very lucky and made some really good new friends. Many thanks. Peter

Finding a Travel Companion or Soulmate

Many of our members start by looking for a gay travel buddy or a friend to share a "Sunday evening aperitif" with. Our Travel partner section and Caffmos Lounge chat rooms are the perfect starting points for those who aren't necessarily looking for "Mr. Right" immediately but want to expand their social circle.

Why Caffmos is the Trusted Choice for Mature Men

Unlike mainstream apps, Caffmos offers a discreet environment for senior bears, chubs, and silver daddies. Our community is built on "warmth and friendship," as member Peter says. With free messaging for supporting members and a sophisticated HTML5 webcam chat room, we make it easy to verify that the person you're talking to is genuine.

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