Caffmos - The Community for older gay men, silver daddies, mature bears, chubs and admirers.

Caffmos, the older gentlemans's club and community. Full of UK gay daddies, mature bears, American silver foxes, US seniors and their admirers of all ages.

Dating and sex are great, but friendship is a wonderful thing too.

Unlike many so called dating or community sites, once you have registered and created your FREE profile on Caffmos, you will be able to browse the thousands of gay old men and admiring profiles and send unlimited messages to those who you may find interesting. Caffmos was created to be a platform for gay daddies and old gay men to find, support and friendship within a safe and friendly environment .

Caffmos was created some years ago, infact in 1998. From a small introductory group of older gay friends Caffmos was born. Originally a Postal Group within the UK, Caffmos soon blossomed and a web page (AOL Homepage) was put together on the internet. The first hit to this page was a mile stone for Caffmos, as within a year it had thousands of viewers from around the world.
In those days there were only a few Mature – Older Gay Men orientated sites. Chiron Rising, Ben Boxer and Apollonetwork. We all seemed to share the same goal, to aid, assist and support older gay men to find new contacts and friendship. Unfortunately things change and money has raised it’s ugly head, and there now seems to be a new site opening every day. No matter Caffmos will retain it’s free membership and continue to offer a platform for many an older men and his admirers to hopefully enjoy and benefit from.

UNRESTRICTED SEARCHING.
You can view as many profiles and non-adult pictures as you would like for FREE all day long. WEBCAM CHAT ROOMS. Once your registration has been processed you will be able to access the Caffmos Plaza, a complex of Chat rooms which are all free and webcam compatible.

GALLERIES.
We all love looking at photos, especially if the photos belong to real people and even more so if you can contact these people if you are attracted to them. So Caffmos has created a number of Galleries, from formal attire to no attire at all (x-rated)

TRAVEL SECTION.
A Travel Section has been created, full of older, gay friendly resorts with reviews and amenities. Plus listing of members seeking travel partners or looking to meet other members on their travels.

INSTANT MESSAGING.
If you and another member want to chat in real time, there is an easy to use Instant Messaging / iChat client that makes it a cinch to connect to that hot silverdaddy or polar bear.

BUDDY LISTS.
We encourage members to make friends and buddies. Whenever you login, you can see if you're buddies are online and reach out to connect to them.

SUPPORTERS.
At Caffmos members the opportunity to become SUPPORTERS of our site. Supporters get a host of premium. You can become a supporter at any time during your membership. All support helps towards the daily maintenance and future development of the Caffmos website.

For some people, things may seem extremely casual and even heathen compared to the formalities of yesterday. Times may have changed, but it is important to remember that people have stayed the same. Be sensible but don't be afraid to take a chance, post your profile on Caffmos or ask that special friend in your social sphere if he would like to go out on a date. One of the great things about being older is that you can dispense with a lot of the anxiety and anticipation that plagues younger relationships. You have nothing to fear because nobody has anything that you haven't seen before. Sifting through the personal ads is a skill that you will have to learn in order to become an expert player in today's dating game. Make a habit of scanning Caffmos profiles every day, in case an ad appeals to you. Make sure that before you respond to any ad that you use an alias, never reveal your phone number and address and that you are writing to an individual who would be a realistic partner for you.

People who take out ads in the personal section of the paper are usually people just like you. Determine first, before you scan the profiles, whether you are looking for a serious relationship, a lover or just a companion to go to the movies with. Many ads will overtly state right in the body of the copy exactly the kind of relationship they are seeking. Narrowing your criteria and the idea of what kind of relationship you are searching for usually manifests the best results. For instance, if you can't stand watching football, don't respond to ads from men or women who are into sports. If you are searching for a friend or companion only through the personal ads, start with profiles that state this specifically. These ads will usually use such phrases as "seeking a friend", "no commitments", "for fun times", "want to have a good time", "not looking for a relationship", "just want to spend some time with you" or "seeking a companion". There are various words used expressing friendship, companionship and those just looking to date. Use these expressions and words to help you sort through the personal ads narrowing your decision among the many people listed.

Lastly, be sensible and realistic. Not everyone is who they seem to be on the internet. Don’t send monies or gifts to those you do not know. The internet has made searching for new contacts and friendships easier, but it has made a “scammers” world easier too!

Thank you for visiting Caffmos. If you like what you see, please tell your friends and don't hesitate to email customer service with suggestions and feedback.