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Launched in 1998, Caffmos is one of the longest running, established intergenerational gay dating sites on the web. With a huge world-wide membership, free search & messaging, webcam video chat rooms and extensive gay photo & video galleries full of mature gay seniors, silver daddies, hairy bears, sons, cubs and TV/CD/TG/TS. Caffmos is the ideal meeting place offering free gay dating for older gay men, gay seniors, silverdaddies, bears, cubs and their admirers.

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